Unlikely Match
December 24, 2020
Q: Am I supposed to stay in relationship with Greg?
A: Yes, the planetary alignments of which you are afraid that might signal or forecast the demise of your relationship is but a transit of energy from one place of relating, to another—a leveling up on your marriage. The shift in the dynamic will be beneficial and not detrimental to your success as a couple. Seek to understand the transits as conduits to a better, more diversified, multi-layered approach to the same person. The interest here is not of the planets themselves nor the approaching stand-offs between them but rather your stand in correlation to self-care and respect of self and him. Try to believe the efforts of marriage can be difficult but can bring a fruitful harvest of love and shared interest in each other’s well-being and safety and health. Even if the dynamic gets risky—trust the foundation of that awe you both felt of the Universe bringing you two together after all that time and then trust Divine timing for your marriage’s future. Not every “ordained” or divinely orchestrated relationship is going to be between two people who are both submerged in spiritual connections and pilgrimages. The lesson that two people with different life missions can come together and grow, apart but together, is a difficult path but a beautiful lesson to the world, for how grounded can a spiritual path be if it cannot relate to another human being with the same basic needs and make-up? Plotting a course with a crew of different talents is the most common sense approach. Who would staff a navy with all captains with vision guided by the stars but no cook to feed the bodies in the mess hall and no one to hoist sails with calloused hands? The ship would be adrift. Love this man and appreciate the fact that he is so very different from yourself. The magic is both in the stars and in the hands that guide the wheel. Let him be the breath in your sails and let your clear vision guide the vessel for you both into safe harbors with safe passage.